"Refrain from Sexual Misconduct" is one of the five precepts in Buddhism. But what exactly do these terms mean in relation to our practice? In recent years, there have been a number of sex scandals in Buddhist communities,which created disruption and even deep divisions among members. Considering this, in conjunction with the urgent Wake Up call that society is receiving as more victims of sexual misconduct step forward, shouldn't Buddhist sanghas try to get some clarity on the issues involved? In this talk and discussion, Devin offers opportunities for beginning this clarification process -- both as individuals and as a collective.